This blog post is gonna be quite controversial and me myself don't even know if I will agree with what I'm saying at the end of it. Kong and Joy (actually till now I still can't believe that it came out from her) both said that no matter how many friends you have currently, it all doesn't really matter because everything will eventually boil down to your life partner. Hence, whats important is to find the right one because he/she is going to be the one who we will be spending the rest of our life with. This sentence suddenly dawned upon me... how true. Look at your parents, they seem to only have each other and all they have in their mind are probably work and family? Family is definitely the main reason to why they are slogging their guts out. How often d'you see them going out with their friends? Yes maybe once a little now and then but hey most of the time they only have each other. Then now the question is, do friends really matter? Yes of course they do to me. But I have also came to realize that they may not necessary be the one who will be constantly there for you in the near future. I'm sure they have their own life too and eventually (again), it's your partner who's gonna be there. Prolly this may be the reason why we have friends that place their boyfriend/ girlfriend on top of friends. They know what they are getting into in future. Haha. But don't get me wrong, I love my friends, they are an awesome bunch of people and I'm thankful to have them in my life. I am sure that they have got my back and will always be there whenever I needed help. I am just not confident of how it will turn out to be in maybe 20-30 years down the road? Will friends still be there? Or in worst case scenario, close friend now has became just hi-bye friend. How sad. Friends aside, what if the ''right'' one you found turned out bad. No friends, no partner, just how depressing can life gets? All in all, I'm still glad that I've found the one, the right one whom I dearly hold close to me. :) Hopefully he's the one who wouldn't let me down in future.
Anyway, YOLO! (taken from Christina's IG)
Just do it, no regrets. :)
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